Things Children Should Never Say

As children first take the family model, we should be careful to talk to our children as parents. Children can interpret things they hear more sensitively than adults. This can directly affect your child's behavior and your attitude towards you. Be careful not to set up these cues when communicating with your children.

"I will do"

It is quite natural that you want to control your child's homework or project, but if you do it your child will never learn or will not want to learn their homework for what you do.

"Cry"

Children need to feel safe in expressing emotions. Saying that your child should not cry leaves the impression that there is a problem with it. Agree that crying is entirely natural behavior.

"Why do not you look like him?"

No child is like a brother, a sister, a brother, a relative, a friend, or a relative. Comparing your child with the other side causes you to feel that it is weaker, do not do it.

"Are you sure you want to eat this?"

It will be more effective to talk about your eating habits than your judicious interpretation. You can leave the preferences to him. Try to trust her with your choice of words and your body language.

"Wait till you come home"

There are two wrongs in this expression. First, it implies that there is no control of the child alone in the second case, which means that you can do another act that will punish you later.

"I promise"

When you promise a child, you create a trust problem. When you want something big, choose "denyim" instead of saying "promise".

"There's no reason to be afraid"

To say this to your child does not change the fact that he is afraid. Instead, talk to them about their fears and try to help him.

"I hate you too"

There was a situation and your child said you hated it. In the face of this situation, do not set up false cues like you respond to me and I hate you. Instead, let him know why he had to make such a sentence.

"Because my dear wants it"

This sentence is a cliché. Do not use this sentence unless you are unconscioned in situations that you have scolded your child or if you have no reason to stop an action.

"I hope you have children like you"

You may be using this sentence to glorify it, but your child can understand that you hate him.

"Shut up"

To be honest, this sentence is nothing but brutality.

18.01.2024